hey everyone.. i just joined this community and i'm excited about hearing everyone's stories so hopefully mine won't seem so bad.. my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and i recently broke up. I thought he was "the one," we even had a wedding date set. Everything was going great and i called him before I went to bed one night and he was just like i don't think you're the one i'm suppose to marry.. i don't love you like that.. hum talk about ripping someone's heart out! And ever since we broke up he has been a totally different person. I tell him i can't talk to him b/c it hurts to bad right now, but the basterd keeps calling me. It's just really hard when you want your best friend to hold you when you're crying.. but he's the reason for your tears. I just don't understand guys!