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Thu, Jul. 21st, 2005, 09:41 pm

hey everyone.. i just joined this community and i'm excited about hearing everyone's stories so hopefully mine won't seem so bad.. my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and i recently broke up. I thought he was "the one," we even had a wedding date set. Everything was going great and i called him before I went to bed one night and he was just like i don't think you're the one i'm suppose to marry.. i don't love you like that.. hum talk about ripping someone's heart out! And ever since we broke up he has been a totally different person. I tell him i can't talk to him b/c it hurts to bad right now, but the basterd keeps calling me. It's just really hard when you want your best friend to hold you when you're crying.. but he's the reason for your tears. I just don't understand guys!

Sat, Jul. 23rd, 2005 12:38 am (UTC)


sorry to hear about the breakup. its late here so im not gonna ramble on at the mo but i'll try to remember to come back and bitch with you about the male of the species...

Fri, Oct. 28th, 2005 08:33 pm (UTC)

A husband or boyfriend should NEVER be a bestfriend....they all are seperate and thats why they have seperate names.

Wed, Aug. 23rd, 2006 01:19 am (UTC)
(Anonymous): I understand

I totally understand. I've been in your shoes. My ex has been trying to get back together with me for years. When I finally told him let's give it a try he surprises me and tell me he has a girlfriend and that they are moving in togehter, but that he wants to talk because maybe I'll say something that will change his mind. I don't understand guys either and I don't think we are suppose to. You have every right to be pissed off. He doesn't want to marry you, but yet he doesn't want to let you go. My ex says he loves me and I was the love of his life, but he's still moving in with someone else because he feels guilty that she paid his bills when he was out of work. You know what, he's a loser, you're guy is a loser. We deserve better.